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Them Before Us

Time to Kiss Dating Hello

Resources to fight the dating decline and save civilization

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Them Before Us and Jenn Friesen
Feb 12, 2026
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I (Jenn) grew up in the “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” era. We were kissing dating goodbye before we’d ever kissed it hello! The author, Joshua Harris, was pushing back against a culture overly focused on singling out and obsessing on members of the opposite sex, practicing repeated heartbreak and other mistakes for hormonal teenagers. (Harris has also kisse…

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