Every Child Deserves Both Mom & Dad

Let’s rebuild what’s broken by building strong marriages and even stronger families.

At Them Before Us, we fight for the rights of children. Always. Because when you protect a child’s right to their mother and father, you’re giving them the emotional, psychological, and social stability they need to thrive. That’s why we do the ANDnotOR Campaign during May and June.

Here’s the heartbreaking truth: only 50% of kids in the U.S. will make it to adulthood with their married mom and dad. That’s not just a sad statistic. That’s an entire generation growing up without the two people who are supposed to love them the most and sacrifice for them daily.

And why? Because our culture tells adults they come first. Because law and tech keep bending over backwards to satisfy adult desires instead of protecting children’s rights.

We say no more.

Our vision is simple and bold: A world where every child is known and loved by their mother and father every single day.

And now, we’re asking you to be part of that vision.

We’ve been given a $50,000 matching gift challenge. And we’re looking for 50 new monthly donors to help us unlock it. That’s $1,000 for every new monthly donor, no matter how much you give. When you give, you’re doing more than supporting a nonprofit. You’re joining a global movement that says kids deserve to be raised by both their mom and dad. That strong families start with strong marriages. That adults need to conform their lives to the rights of children, not the other way around.

Want to do even more?

Tell your story. Share what your mom and dad meant to you. Email us at us@thembeforeus.com, tag us on social, and use #ANDnotOR to join the movement. Let the world know that children are not trophies or accessories. They are human beings with rights. And the most important one is the right to be loved and raised by their mother and father.